Summer Scorcher

Are you feeling the heat? Besides the sweltering hot, summer is on a scorching pace. Does anyone else feel it should still be…say, May?

Summer has tried to wither me. There have been several times my strength and spirit seemed shriveled. Rather than allowing these burns more attention, I’ll share the summer fun that made my heart soar (NOT sear)!


The early morning sun felt perfect that Tuesday. We were celebrating my twin’s birthday! “Let’s go somewhere unique and new!”

The sign with the opossum was intriguing enough (if you live in the Ozarks you understand!). We were giddily hungry as we crossed the quaint street!

Giggling, we read the sign out loud-perfect twin harmony- “Closed on Tuesday, July 8th.” We felt a bit singed. As we left, we waved at two couples (with the cutest toddler) standing by the restaurant; we didn’t catch them in time to share it was closed!

 Like always, I put a positive spin on it. “Well, that wasn’t meant for us, let’s try another place downtown!”

By the time we parked and walked downtown (keep in mind I move at a snail’s pace right now) the two couples and toddler were approaching us! THIS CAN’T BE. “Closed on Tuesday, July 8th.”

What do you do?

You take a group selfie with your new friends having the same luck! 😊

By the time we cooled off in the car for a bit, we drove to the OTHER side of town, praying that place wouldn’t be closed.

THEY WERE OPEN!😊

“Do you have seats with cushions?” I asked as we were being welcomed to the OPEN restaurant. The man made a quick right and guess who was seated at the table RIGHT BESIDE US? Laughter erupted! “Are you stalking us?” Kristy asked them.

“Are you TWO stalking US?” Not only were they friendly, but funny!

During our breakfast they shared that one couple was from Colorado visiting with their young toddler. We all wanted something unique to eat! We found ourselves in a unique situation that we agreed we would all share! Who would believe we went to the same 3 restaurants?

When the check was dropped off the waitress leaned over and said, “Your bill has been paid. They wish to stay anonymous.” She was smiling the whole time because she heard our story and had fun with us the entire time. Gratitude? Oh my. AND TEARS. We couldn’t believe it! We hugged goodbye and talked about how we will pay it forward. At that moment I didn’t feel shriveled or withered. The warmth of their kindness and generosity made for continued perfect temperatures.


My skin has felt charred by blood draws. My bones burn and my mobility is marred. We all have sizzling situations. They remind me of Jesus’s 40 days in the wilderness.  With a confident “NO” he could reply to Satan’s temptations. He knew who HE was—the great I AM.

Do we have to walk through the fire, blistered by burns, or experience the scalding desolate times in the wilderness to know who we ARE?

“My energy shrivels; situations will scorch. I’ll not wither in sweltering weather and woes. I’ll avoid being parched–the Living Waters will quench my soul.”

K.L. Hale

Let’s allow our faith to fuel flames and burn bright with the hope, love, and mercy that Jesus shows us.

Do you KNOW HOW LOVED YOU ARE? REALLY?

Have hope. Keep the faith. 💚

Finley River Hale turned 8 years old last month!

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If you or a loved one is battling NET cancer please visit the Neuroendocrine Cancer Foundation for a treasure trove of helpful information! 🦓🙏🏻 Don’t lose hope, friends!

Active Awareness-Part I

It’s easy to get lost in thoughts and activities. I try to be extremely aware. Attention is needed to gauge my energy and commitment levels. Self-awareness and selfless awareness. To show mercy, kindness, and love–to pause to remember Paul’s words in Colossians–and be aware of others.

How does that awareness impact actions?

Awareness, as defined in Merriam-Webster, is the quality or state of being aware. It is the knowledge and understanding that something is happening or exists. Observing. Perceiving.

Since my last post, my amazing Dad has been in the hospital after an unexpected heart surgery. My precious mom has hardly left his side. Sweet family and friends have stopped in, prayed, and texted. I’m aware of the consistently and constantly changing circumstances of life–and the blessings and miracles. Sometimes it’s difficult to digest all the awareness. My spiritual awareness (knowing my true self and identity in Christ) grounds me.

Godly sorrow is a gift of the Spirit. It is a deep realization that our actions have offended our Father and our God. It is the sharp and keen awareness that our behavior caused the Savior, He who knew no sin, even the greatest of all, to endure agony and suffering.

Ezra Taft Benson

Today is NET Cancer Awareness Day. Before 2022, I was not aware of this cancer. My experience makes me more aware. Organizations, research, and new friends have grown my knowledge. I hope to bring awareness to help others. Although it’s rare, statistically, there should/could/might be others in our 417-land that have this and are…unaware.

I’m very aware.

NET Cancer Day is an annual event held on November 10th. It was created to increase awareness of neuroendocrine tumors (NETs) and provide a voice to the NET community for improved diagnostics, treatments, information, care, and research. The International Neuroendocrine Cancer Alliance (INCA) coordinates it and has celebrated it annually for over 10 years. (International Neuroendocrine Cancer Alliance, 2024)

Neuroendocrine cancer stands for a group of cancers that start in neuroendocrine cells and there are 2 main types:

  • Neuroendocrine tumors (NETs)
  • Neuroendocrine carcinomas (NECs)

People with neuroendocrine tumors are frequently misdiagnosed with more common conditions such as:

  • Anxiety
  • Menopause
  • Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS)
  • Asthma
  • Diabetes

(Symptoms of neuroendocrine tumors vary depending on where the tumor is located)

Common persistent symptoms could be:

  • Flushing of the skin and face
  • Digestive problems
  • Abdominal pain 
  • Diarrhea
  • Shortness of breath, cough, chest pain
  • Hypoglycemia (low blood sugar)
  • Heavy sweating for no known reason
  • Hyperglycemia (high blood sugar)

Seven Facts About NET (LACNETS, 2024)

  • NET is a rare cancer. In the United States, 7 in 100,000 people are diagnosed per year. 
  • ​NET can affect neuroendocrine cells throughout the body.
  • ​NET is a difficult cancer to diagnose.
  • ​Some (but not all) NET patients have symptoms from their cancer.
  • ​The cause of NET is unknown.
  • ​Seeking the opinion of a NET specialist is important for all NET patients.

Friends, if you or a loved one are experiencing symptoms please seek out professional help! For years I experienced a “missed diagnosis” (NOT misdiagnosed). Please stay aware and seek out medical advice. Don’t give up on seeking and finding the right help! If you have symptoms like mine, feel free to reach out to me.

There’s a good chance I understand what you’re feeling. Even if I don’t, I’ll do my best to make you feel significant. Because you are.

️God, help me be aware of others. Break my heart for what breaks yours. May awareness advance advocacy and accelerate our appreciation. Let’s create a plan for abundant appreciation!

Have faith. You are loved. ❣

Tomorrow, I’ll share Part II of Active Awareness in our celebration of Veteran’s Day? I’m aware of the time it takes to read and support my blog. I love and cherish you all. THANK YOU!

Sources:

International Neuroendocrine Cancer Alliance. (2024, November 10). INCA. Retrieved from incalliance.org: https://incalliance.org/ncd-2024/campaign-toolkit-2024/

LACNETS. (2024, November 10). Lacnets.org. Retrieved from Resources: https://www.lacnets.org/resources

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